Friday, August 27, 2010

August 27th 2010

Matthew reminds me to update my blog and yesterday he told me it had been a long time. We have been busy with our wedding week at the beach and an 8 month old we've starting watching.
The wedding week was beautiful, we stayed in Nags Head NC and the weather was great, it was so nice to be there with friends and family. We were married friday August 20th 2010. I am glad we chose to be married during a weeks vacation with people that mean so much to us. Matthew and I love the beach and could not think of a better place to be married. We've been going to OBX NC since we were kids. I'm not sure when we'll have pictures of our own so here are a few some friends took.

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Baby Cries

 I came across a portion of a book that really made an impression on me. It is about what happens when a baby cries himself to sleep during a restless night. I think a mother can tell when her baby is whining and when he needs something. But I also think that newborns do not yet know how to whine... so there will be no crying alone for our little man. This is the quote, it is from the book the "No Cry Sleep Solution":

"He awakes in a mindless terror of the silence, the motionlessness. He screams. He is afire from head to foot with want, with desire, with intolerable impatience. He gasps for breath and screams until his head is filled and throbbing with the sound. He screams until his chest aches, until his throat is sore. He can bear the pain no more and his sobs weaken and subside. He listens. He opens and closes his fists. He rolls his head from side to side. Nothing helps. (...) He begins to cry again, but it is too much for his strained throat; he soon stops. He waves his hands and kicks his feet. He stops, able to suffer, unable to think, unable to hope. He listens. Then he falls asleep again."